Now here is a secret, do you know why most of
relationships fail? It is because when we go out to look for the love
partner, we go out looking for someone who can complete us...someone who
can fill up that void in us, that someone who can make
us feel special. That is the biggest mistake a lot have been doing.
First before you go out looking for love, furthermore you should not be
looking for love...like i was stating, before you are out to find your
partner...first find yourself, understand yourself and love yourself.
There's a lie we are always told that we need to find someone who will
love us for our faults, that means you are over looking your defaults
and trying to find someone we can use as an excuse of "oh i am only
human, i am not perfect"...once you view yourself as imperfect thus you
are generating yourself as an imperfection. Look in the mirror and fall
in love with the person you see, stop looking for excuses, like i am
fat, i am insecure, i am too needy, and other blah blah blahs. Like it's
always said, don't fall in love because you are lonely fall in love
because you are ready. And by ready it means find yourself, understand
yourself and love yourself. Fill that void in you with your own joy and
satisfaction and love will find you not vice versa... Lisa Nichols said,
"Inside relationships it's important to first understand who's coming
into the relationship, and not just your partner. You need to understand
yourself first"...now you know the secret..
